If you’ve read my last two posts you have an idea about my thoughts on Double Your Dating and what it can do for your love life. For this post I’m going to go more in depth about what Double Your Dating has done for me, and how to make it work for you.
Double Your Dating – Before and After
Every body building website has a before and after photo. I figured I might as well do the same for dating as well. I had to search long and hard to find a good “before” photo, and I managed to find one.
Before:

This photo was taken after my Jr. year of college, so it was a couple years after reading Double Your Dating. 4 months after reading Double Your Dating I met a girl that I dated for over 2 years, so I got lazy. I didn’t look like a guy who could get girls. I looked like your typical “dork.” Fast forward a few years…
After:

This is from a few months ago. This photo was taken after years of transforming myself into a guy who was good with women. The shirt is from the buckle. The haircut is from an actual hair stylist. And the beard is because I had a few female friends tell me I should try the scruff… then I had every girl in my life (except one) tell me that they loved the beard.
If I had stayed the “dork” in the first photo, my life would have been pretty normal. I would have settled for the girl I was dating, would have gotten my music degree, and by now have 2.5 kids and a job as a band teacher in some small town in North Dakota. That “dork” was even after a good 4 months of studying Double Your Dating.
After that relationship ended, I dove back into my dating education, and the first thing I did was pick Double Your Dating back up.
Then everything started to change…
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Progress was slow, and it was frustrating, but every day I was getting a little better with women. Getting a little better at flirting, and slowly moving through the steps that you need to master to get good with women.
In the next few years I came across other dating programs. Even though I had other programs, I kept coming back to Double Your Dating. Thousands of dollars later I realized that every dating system had the same information.
- The Basics – Fashion, Grooming, etc
- Flirting
- Approaching
- Conversation
- Phone Number
- 1st date
- Getting Physical
This past summer I looked back over Double Your Dating, and I realized it had all of those things. I read through it and I wondered why I had bought all of those other dating programs. If I had just followed this advice I would have gotten where I was at much faster. Instead I fell into the trap of “shiney object syndrome.”
How Can I Avoid “Shiney Object Syndrome with Double Your Dating?
There are a lot of guys out there trying to get better at women. When there’s a ton of demand, there are a ton of products. Each one claiming to be the next best thing. Also, learning how to get better with women is hard. Since it’s so hard, I was always looking for the next best thing. I was an easy target for the people selling dating material.
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6 years after reading Double Your Dating I realized I could have saved thousands of dollars just by studying the first book on dating I had purchased. If I could go back and change things how would I do them differently?
- Read Double Your Dating (ok, so that wasn’t any different)
- Take what I had learned and acted on it.
- Reflected on my experiences and gone back to Double Your Dating for more information
- Rinse and repeat until I had sucked every last bit of value out of Double Your Dating
Then, and only then, would I look for more information about dating.
The hardest part about learning anything new is when you learn way more than you can apply right away. When you eventually get to applying the knowledge that you’ve spent hours acquiring, you freeze up, and you don’t do anything that you learned.
So how do you avoid freezing up?
You avoid freezing up by learning a little bit and then applying it. The less you think about it and the more you act on it the better you will get.
I have a few friends who are becoming doctors. They spent a few years in a classroom learning what they needed to know about the human body. Even in the classroom they were studying and acting. They would take anatomy, and then dissect cadavers. Also, after years in the classroom, they spent considerable time in clinicals, getting even more hands on experience. By the time they became doctors, they were already experts in their field.
I know first year teachers who say they learned more in the first month of teaching than they did in four years of college.
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You learn more by acting than you do by studying. Your dating education should be the same.
Double Your Dating can be your “textbook.” It will give you the information you need to start from square one.
You might be a complete dork like me. Or you might have more, or less, work to do to get better with women.
I can’t make any guarantees, but following the advice in this article has made me VERY good at areas outside of dating. I have the dating life I want because I eventually applied the information I learned in Double Your Dating. I turned myself from complete dork into dork who gets laid. You can too. Grab your copy of Double Your Dating and change your life today.
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